Dec 4, - When a woman killed her abusive husband out of self-defense, she found out that 'he' was actually a woman wearing a prosthetic penis. The most important truth to recognize in the field of self-defense is this: if you're involved in a physical Is it worth going to jail just to see who's dick is longer? .. This is especially true when it is a women dealing with a man. So I am going to go with a tactic that a gent called Geoff Thompson created called 'the fence'.