Jan 23, - My female partner and I think we're using the condom correctly, but each with one hand, roll it down over the erect shaft to the base with the other, . Definitely female lubricant - it often looks thick and white like semen and. May 17, - I don't know of any (normal) female sexual discharge that's white. . As for seepage out the bottom, don't worry, that's what the ring at the.